A family is a key factor that significantly affects the growth of every person in Vietnamese belief và is an important part ofVietnamese culture. Therefore, the Vietnamese always put their family first và take many efforts to maintain the traditional Vietnamese family values.

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Vietnamese Family Unity and Harmony among Family Members

In traditional Vietnamese family values, multiple generations are living together lớn take care of each other. A typical extended family in Vietnam giới often includes grandparents, parents,and children. Moving out of the family at the age of 18 is not common in Vietphái mạnh, and the Vietnamese still live sầu with their family until they get married. Sometimes, other relatives such as uncles, aunts, & cousins can also live sầu under one roof.


An extended family

A good relationship with all of our relatives & being loyal to the family is really important because we have a popular saying of “mot giot mau dao hon ao nuoc la” meaning that “blood is thicker than water”. We can help each other when someone has difficulties. However, sometimes the number of relatives counts up more than a few dozens, causing some troubles with remembering & calling all of them with the right titles like uncles, aunts, or sister-in-law.

In the families, the workload is shared aao ước the members. The oldest man is usually the head of the household, making most of the vital decisions on economic and social matters. On the other h&, women take responsibility for housework & raising the kids. The grandparents sometimes help with nurturing their grandchildren.

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The quarrels between members are frowned upon. They try khổng lồ avoid the arguments to keep the family’s consensus. If there is any dispute, the head of that family will act as a judge. That is also whydivorce was really rare in Vietnamese society in the past. Women believed that they should sacrifice for their husbands và children. They usually handled and tolerated all the unfair treatment lớn keep the peace for the children’s sake.

Respect for the Seniors in the Family

In traditional Vietnamese family values, people are taught lớn give the seniors, especially in their families, absolute respect. In our minds, the elders have gained more experiences in life; they know what is correct, what is wrong, so the younger ones should try lớn follow their instructions & listen to their advice.

Obedience is an obligation for every kid until they can be independent and can earn money for living. In the older times, especially in the countryside, the children even have lớn marry the ones assigned by parents or grandparents. Although the society is more open nowadays, some families still maintain this traditional custom because the families believe that the elders know best.In communication, when talking to the elders, people must use honorific titles khổng lồ show respect for the seniors and add “vang”, “da”, or “thua” before và after any conversations.

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These traditional Vietnamese family values are also expressed through the table manners. In some rural areas in Vietnam giới, there are different trays of food in the same meals in a family. They often Điện thoại tư vấn “upper trays” which means the trays of foods for the seniors, for the men in that family. These trays sometimes have better food or freshly cooked dishes. And the other trays of food which is called “lower trays” are usually for housewives, women & the kids in the family.

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Some people criticize this is gender discrimination. On the other hvà, others claim that this division aims lớn connect everyone better. The men can talk about business or essential topics while drinking some beer & wines. Meanwhile, women can look after the kids and enjoy the food more comfortably.

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In some families, at the beginning of each meal, the offspring have sầu lớn invite the elders before starting to eat in the correct order of hierarchy, from the eldest khổng lồ the youngest on the eating tables. While eating, the younger also give sầu the best part of the food to lớn the elders khổng lồ show their respect. The children have sầu chances lớn learn about traditional Vietnamese family values day by day thanks to the small habits lượt thích those above.

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Vietnamese Family Values in Daily Meals

To Vietnamese, having meals every day with other family members is extremely important, especially at dinner. It is one of the most crucial customs in traditional Vietnamese family values.In our belief, this is the time of the day when a family can gather và strike up conversations with each other. Parents usually ask the children about their days, how they get through a day, or if there is something new to lớn them.

This endearing habit was formed from the early history of Vietnam & is still maintained by most families as a way to connect all the members. The image of a round tray of food put in the middle of a rectangular mat has become a symbol of Vietnamese cuisine culture.


Vietnamese tray of food

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Family meals are entirely different from the meals at restaurants or food stalls, they are much simpler, and foods lượt thích Pho, Vietnamese banh ngươi baguette, or some kinds of noodles are for banquets only. Every dish in the family meals is planned và prepared carefully by the housewives lớn balance the nutrition for their family members.

Those are the reasons why people away from trang chính always remember the joyful family meals cooked by their moms & their grandmothers. People who often enjoy family meals in the warm atmosphere usually respect their families & also the traditional Vietnamese family values.

Vietnamese Family Values in Tet Holiday

Tet holiday, also known as Lunar New Year, is one of the most important occasions and festivals in the years of Vietnamese society, the beginning of the good & new things. However, the main reason that all Vietnamese always looking forward to the Tet holiday is that Tet is the main occasion in the year when family members away from home page travel across the country or back lớn Vietnam khổng lồ celebrate the holiday together with their families. The second holiday that families gather, though not all celebrate, is the Mid-autumn festival.


Vietnamese family in the Tet Holiday

All members together, clean, & decorate the house with a branch of peach blossom & apricot blossom or a kumquat tree; then siêu thị to lớn prepare for Tet & enjoy the most delicious new year dishes that only eaten in Tet occasions such as sticky rice cake (banh chung), fruit jams, & Vietnamese pork sausage.

On the very first day of the Lunar New Year, the offsprings come to lớn the grandparents’ home & give sầu them the best wishes. All the relatives và cousins meet & chit-chat for a long time. Then, everyone comes lớn a local pagodomain authority or temple to lớn visit và pray for the best things tocome for their families. During Tet festival, people also invite & welcome their ancestors baông xã to lớn enjoy this important holiday with descendants. This is a part of folk religion, known as ancestral worship, in Vietnam.

One thing that is particularly special in traditional Vietnamese Tet is giving out lucky money. The adults give tiny red money envelopes khổng lồ the kids, và the young ones also give sầu lucky money lớn the elders like parents & grandparents, which means giving them more luchồng & best wishes for the new year.

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